Always make certain that you pay attention to getting your gal off. If she didn’t have an orgasm and you did –that’s bad. That’s Real Bad. Shame on you!!
…how long do you think that can go on before she’s going to start resenting you for that? Many, many girls cannot achieve orgasm thru penetration alone. Think about that for a minute. What the fuck you gonna do to get around that? What are you going to do to make that work for you? And more importantly, work for her? In my mind, you’ve got a real opportunity here. Tangible. If your woman knows that it is important to you that she also get off you will find yourself a man worthy of the annals of sexual history, a rare man indeed. She’ll notice, promise. And that’d be because most men are only interested in getting off themselves. Once a man is done he doesn’t care to much about his partner’s needs at that point.
If you want to make yourself standout to your lover then I suggest you always make sure she gets her needs met as well.
In the end, generally speaking, ugly guys make better lovers. There’s a reason for that.