Have you ever noticed that when human sexuality deviates from the “norm” it gets weird? Like, as in kinky and dark, perverted. It doesn’t take the other path, you know, as in getting nicer or less weird or uber “norm” or cleaner or “whiter” in some way. No. It gets weirder. A stronger sensation to fuck her pussy with gentleness doesn’t overtake you –NO! You want to fuck her in the asshole with severity and purpose. You never hear of some fellow that wants to lay his woman down in a warm milk bath that he personally nursed from goat teats, spend six hours caressing her body with the finest emulsions available, with the greatest tenderness dab her body dry with 10 trillion count Egyptian towels and then spend four more hours just lightly brushing his moist lips behind her ear before serving her breakfast in bed on hand crocheted doilies. FUCK NO! You want to wrap some 6mm hemp around her neck and cinch it off to her elbow harness and stuff an ass hook in there and then tell her you’re sorry you had to do that while you fuck her with extreme abandon in The Fucking Position.
I’m reminded of the post I made some time back about people with Tourette syndrome –why do they have to yell out obscenities? Why can’t they scream out encouragements?
But of course, I am a “pervert”. I don’t like “normal” sex and knew I didn’t from the age of, like, 12. It is hard for me to appreciate sex outside of BDSM. For me, even if it is a quickie it only takes me like 20 seconds to put a chick in an elbow harness for satisfying that need. Sex any other way, for me, without sadist overtones, is almost always less than satisfying. Frankly, the more a chick is in discomfort the better I find the sexual experience. But it is important to note, if the chick isn’t into the scene like I am then I wouldn’t have anything to do with her anyway. Let me put that another way…if a chick isn’t into what is taking place to her then it doesn’t do anything for me as well. We aren’t talking about sociopaths here.
But when a chick comes in that understands, or suspects, or is curious that BDSM can give her a more intense experience, both physically and sexually, one that can leave her elevated above all other sexual experiences she has had, then you have been given a gift, a responsibility.
I do take that seriously.